We've all been taught to steer clear of the topics of sex, politics and religion in polite conversation. However, in Washington, DC, it's simply a matter of time (three seconds?) before someone let's you know where they stand politically. When a person at a networking event let's me know within minutes she is pro-choice or vegan or ultra-conservative or a supporter/non-supporter of drilling/nuclear/wind/solar energy, I usually move on rather quickly to someone else to discuss business, the networking event itself, or maybe even the weather, rather than where we stand on controversial issues (that can come later when we know the other person better). The beauty of working the room is that we have the ability to move on. When you're a member of an audience, however, it's another story.
Tuesday night I had the great pleasure of listening to the popular and talented mezzo-soprano Joyce DiDonato at the Kennedy Center. And while I enjoyed her singing very much, her comments about what news programs she likes and dislikes, and her feelings about the recent events in Egypt, left me wanting to move on to someone who would simply discuss the music.
Next time you meet a possible connection/connector for the first time, be mindful of bringing up subjects that may leave a sour taste. Especially in Washington, it's best to hold your cards until a more appropriate time to reveal one's political leanings.
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